I feel like my understanding of grace and the gospel has made me socially awkward in a lot of ways. I’m really sensitized to law preachers who preach as though obedience to law was God’s message to us. The further away in time I get from my own crash and burn (it’s been six years), the more sensitized I seem to be getting to law preaching. My law radar is on all the time now. I see law masquerading as good news all over the place and it’s become easier than ever to recognize. Law and religious rule-keeping isn’t God’s final word to us. Jesus is. Unfortunately, most Bible preaching and teaching pulls up short and stops with law as though there was hope there. That used to describe me.
After hitting a wall of performance in early 2009, the now-power of the gospel gripped my heart and turned my predictable little world upside down. We ended up leaving the church I helped plant nine years earlier, as one of its founding pastors. People got mad at us and then we got mad at them for being mad at us and not understanding. It wasn’t a pleasant time. In fact, it was a very sad and heartbreaking time for us. Our heads were spinning and we were trying to sort through what had just happened and what God was up to. It became increasingly clear to us that staying wasn’t an option.
We found a gospel-centered church soon after our departure that proved very healing for us. We were welcomed and after we shared our story, we were embraced without criticism or judgement. They were glad we were there and week after week, we heard the gospel and healing began. That went on for about two years until the lead pastor felt called to go elsewhere and the church merged with another one, and what we had known and experienced those two years basically morphed.
Then the dreaded search started again. And it’s still going. Yep, I’ve become that guy. The guy I used to judge in my performance days. The guy who seems to always Continue reading “The Gospel and My Social Awkwardness”